Some. Days. Just. Suck.

Some. Days. Just. Suck. Today is one of those days. I didn’t want to get out of bed. But I did. Barely. I didn’t want to function. But I am… as best I can. It’s been a challenging week, really. We’ve been celebrating my growth a lot here at MiSFiT in MoTioN. And I thank … More Some. Days. Just. Suck.

Shift Happens

I bet you think the title has a typo. 😜 Last weekend I attended the Women in Recovery retreat at St. Anthony Retreat Center in Three Rivers, California. My 10th year. The retreat’s 20th year. 2010. My first year. I wasn’t even sober yet. I had 84 days of recovery from codependency. Well. Um. Sort of. … More Shift Happens

Take Back the Night

Fifteen years ago, I attended my first Take Back the Night. Take Back the Night is an international event and non-profit organization with the mission of ending sexual, relationship, and domestic violence in all forms. Hundreds of events are held in over 30 countries annually. (Wikipedia) 2004. Fall. My first semester as a student at Fresno … More Take Back the Night

Life is Funny that Way

Isn’t life just funny sometimes? I don’t necessarily mean “Funny HA-HA.” Just, you know, funny weird. You muster the courage to take one risk, and it leads you to another–even scarier–road. Then you get to decide if you’re courageous enough to take yet another risk. Even though you know, by now, it will probably lead … More Life is Funny that Way

Out of the Abyss

I’ve always been a writer. Even when I wasn’t writing. Like when my son died, and seemingly so had my words. It was an abysmal period. My words were lost to me, or I was lost to them. Either way, I just wasn’t writing anymore. But I was still a writer. Because I’ve always been a writer. … More Out of the Abyss

The General

My wife is a pointer. To hear her tell it, the last few years have been “tough.” If you press her for details, you may get bits of the story. If you really engage her, before you know it you’ll be able to start piecing together those bits into the skeleton of an entire story. … More The General

I’m Baaaaaaack!

I’m baaaaaaack… and damn has a LOT happened in the last five years! Don’t worry, I’m still a runner… #RunningToSurvive even. Other than that, I practically don’t recognize myself–and to some degree, my family–anymore. Change has been a constant. But, that’s really life, isn’t it? Life is in session, that’s for sure. Hey, speaking of … More I’m Baaaaaaack!